“Life begins when you do.” — Hugh Downs, American Broadcaster
I have a business contact who dials (OK â probably touches) my phone number every month. Clearly, he has some kind of CMS that tells him to do so. Unfortunately, the system doesnât tell him how to do it. Marketing strategy doesnât seem to play into his ritual.
It doesnât help that he mumbles and has no intonation in his voice. Conversations with him are painful. Itâs not so much the struggle to understand what heâs saying thatâs the worst part. Instead, itâs the useless approach he takes to this process of follow-up.
âHello this is ___ ____. Iâm just calling . . . â
Right â thatâs about the size of it.
Thereâs nothing friendly, exciting or intriguing about his message â now mostly (and thankfully) handled by voicemail. He never shares anything interesting â nor does he offer any leads or ideas for mine. In fact, he usually spends most of the conversation telling me how bad business is, complaining about tenants or government officials and mostly causing me to forget what time is it as I look at my watch (yes I still wear one) at minute intervals that seem like hours.
When I think of how he likely spends dozens of hours a month, itâs no wonder his business is suffering. Of course, itâs always the fault of other people, the economy, circumstances â it doesnât matter the reason, someone else is to blame.
I get todayâs scene is about putting it all out there (the next time I hear a comment prefaced with âmy generationâ Iâm going to hit something), but come on â doesnât anyone use their head anymore? If youâre trying to bolster credibility, spending majority time enumerating the ways youâre failing doesnât do it.
The phone can serve as a great part of your marketing strategy
With so much being handled by e-mail these days, setting yourself apart by picking up the phone or posting a stamp to a letter can be huge as a part of and effective promotional or outreach mix, provided you put some thought into why someone would want to hear from you.
In todayâs typical thumb response to communications, you can really stand out by applying some old-school marketing strategies to stand out from the crowd. This requires a little bit of forethought, though.
Merely annoying someone with a regimented approach to âtouch baseâ isnât going to do it. Successful small business owners are busy. They donât have time to spend with someone meandering through a sales pitch (or networking âopportunityâ). Most are polite, but sooner or later, even the kindest will start screening you out of prime time priorities.
Think before you initiate contact
I find it curious that the new mantra is relationship marketing.
Good business communications has always required this.
If you canât craft a message â whether written, verbal or visual â that shows you get your customersâ perspectives, itâs going to be a lot harder to convince them you are the right provider for their needs.
Conversely, if you go at it making your input helpful, valuable and memorable, theyâll think of you first when it comes time to buy or refer another to what you offer.
If youâre going to interrupt someone with a phone call, make sure youâre prepared to offer something that gets the recipientâs attention. Itâs easy to find a new resource, lead or contact that pertains to your customerâs interests. Be ready with something that adds value to their day.
No â everything doesnât need to be free!
Obviously, if your follow-up system involves phone calls, you canât charge a prospect for listening to you. What you can do, though, is give them something they appreciate that will lead to a sale.
Back to my mumbling monthly moment crasher â Iâve known this guy for almost two decades. He did bring me in on a large contract some time ago that I appreciated and strove to reciprocate. Sadly, every lead I sent to him called me back and complained. I feel a stronger commitment to my clients and valued contacts â and my mindset â than I do to supporting his business these days.
Curiously, he starts every call (now voice mail message) with âI havenât heard from you in a while.â My reaction (not stated) to this is, âhave you considered wondering why?â Of course, if he was really interested in what I was doing (itâs a great idea to do this before you make a call ;-)), he could look at any of my websites, Google me or spend a moment on Linked In. Even if he read this blog (I know he doesnât â tip: do this with prospects or referral agents you are pursuing), he wouldnât see himself in the illustration.
Being a successful small business owner happens when you recognize your strengths and weaknesses. I try to address my shortcomings but mostly cheat by delegating. If youâre not willing or able to do that, itâs important to be honest with yourself about what you need to fix to succeed.
Prospecting (or networking) requires a lot more than contact (or attending an event where you shove business cards in peopleâs hands). You need to think. The good news is, so few do. If you prepare your outreach by doing a little bit of research before you make the call, send the e-mail, broadcast on social media or schedule a meeting, youâll seem magnificent compared to most of the rest. Standing out is now easy for motivated and savvy entrepreneurs.
Have you found a fun marketing strategy to get peopleâs attention by impressing them with yours? Please share in the comments below (and click the social links to the left of this article if you liked what you read).
7 responses to “Why are you calling me?”
It sounds to me (pun intended) that not only does his voice lack intonation and enthusiasm, but that he is slow on his feet. This is the sort of person who needs to delegate such tasks to another.
Yep – I threw a pun into my reply on your blog post too :-). Agreed, as noted, delegation works for some (like me) but you need to first recognize you need help to do it right. Thanks for taking the time to read, stop in and comment, Roy.
Great article. I believe it has always been that way in life. There are so many people with no common sense that if you have just a little you will rise to the top. Of course there is, like you said, a lot more to it that that. but it seems that the thinkers of the world are definitely the minority these days.
Thanks for stopping in, reading and commenting, Chef William. Yes, it’s curious how so many seem to get into a routine without thinking about what it’s doing the them (or how it’s shaping the response of others.
Hi Nanette,
I always love the refreshing truth to your posts. I started working in my own town recently and one of the things that I love about this is that it is a smaller town and everyone knows each other. Well, not everyone but quite a few people. It is nice to go places locally and recognize people I know. I like to frequent the same stores so we know the people. There is something about that which is missing in some of our bigger communities, but does it have to be? You make some very good points here. I appreciate you.
PS. I was partly curious, in looking at the comments, to see if your phone friend came out and said something to defend his ways. Apparently not, which does not surprise me much.
Great to see you here, Amy. Right – I miss the small town caring and connection (just moved out of state this month). Frankly, I’ve repeatedly considered deleting this post as I had some remorse after publishing (don’t like to call anyone out who might be recognized – even by themselves alone). As stated in the post, I’m (almost) certain this guy doesn’t spend a moment scanning published content of his prospects or referral agents. Sadly, most small business owners prospect equally blindly. I’ve been guilty of this too. It’s silly to do so with so much easily and readily available on the web. Anyone can set themselves apart in a big way by subscribing to blogs published by those they consider important contacts, doing a quick Google search or visiting a website.